You have the look of a soldier or a man that has worked with his hands.

[He's noble, she can tell that much, but given the Colonies, it is impossible for nobles not to work in some form, especially in the North. His talent with niceties aren't in question. He has managed so well, she would imagine that he constantly hosts feasts and festivals or greeting other nobles.]

I'm expected to host the nobles and governors of my husband's realm.